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Am I bothered?

Friday, July 16th, 2010

Am I bothered.

Call me old fashioned but I can’t help liking having an MP who,  I believe acts with integrity and courtesy.

Call me sentimental but I can’t help being  thankful that I have an MP, who yesterday took my daughter and her classmates to present their Send My Friend to School petition for Universal Secondary Education, to No 10, Downing Street and took the time and trouble to buy them hot chocolate at Portcullis House afterwards.

I don’t suppose the clutch of children from St Elizabeth’s School, Richmond will ever forget the day their MP, Zac Goldsmith,  bothered to introduce them to passing ministers, the ex-Home Secretary and some of the new MPs. Sky’s Polictical  Editor, Adam Boulton came over for a chat even your own Daniel Finklestein stopped to say hello in Whitehall.

Can we just let him get on with being a good constituency MP?  He must be worn out with people overlooking his achievement in winning his seat. I certainly am.

Come on Channel 4. I am used to seeing you broadcast real news - not an account of whether Mr Goldsmith spent too much on his campaign anoraks.

Mr Goldsmith’s response on Sky and BBC was an authentic and heartfelt statement of his behaviour. Such a shame Channel 4 did not give him the right to a live right to reply. He asked.

Food for Thought

Monday, June 28th, 2010

During commiseration drinks last night the conversation took a turn away from our lads’ lack of defence strategy to food. Interesting; but not unexpected since the Man From Birdseye was at the table. I was asked if I was a food facist. The short answer is no….but the longer one takes some explaining.

We are what we eat; so the saying goes. Like all cliches it is based on the truth. For five years I worked full-time as a current affairs reporter on Tonight With Trevor McDonald where I had the invaluable opportunity of observing and analysing our diverse and, sometimes surprising,  relationship with food. After conducting hundreds of interviews I came to realise that food is one of the most remarkable barometers of who we really are….whether it is the 31 stone woman who travelled to Duke University in the US for life-saving treatment or the father who developed real chicken nuggets for his autistic daughter.

Where once food was for sustenance it is used for entertainment, emotional nourishment or even to make a point about our standing in the social strata. Athletes are fanatical about developing the perfect nutritional equation and models are ultra disciplined about their diets.

But what is really important is that most of us  maintain a balance about all of those reasons for liking - or even loving - what we eat.

In other words junk food is fine so long as you remember it is empty calories, organic food is great but some of it is a waste of money, fair trade bananas are a good buy if you want to fund a hospital in West Africa, takeaways are fine in moderation and, as I said to Captain Birdseye,  my life has a single mother of three children has been truly enhanced by frozen peas.

What we need to understand as the money to fund a Nanny State falls away,  is that food is central to our well-being. We now live in an era where pressure on the NHS will have to be reduced. Treating obesity is a huge drain on our resources: everything from unnecessary knee replacements to diabetes can often been prevented before treatment is required.

I once sat through an operation called a total body lift. It was carried out in Kansas because we do not have the expertise to perform such invasive surgery here. It was not cosmetic - it was carried out on a woman who had lost seventeen stone in weight and had extensive problems with excess skin. It took ten hours and my breath away.

I am not a food facist but I do care passionately about what we eat…..and about a common sense approach.

The Real Thing

Wednesday, April 7th, 2010

Earlier today I appeared on ITV’s This Morning Programme. Apart from the fact that it was a pleasure to meet Philip Schofield and Holly Willoughby it was also a chance to talk about how relieved and happy I am that my son has turned such a corner in dealing with his computer game compulsion. He is genuinely happy at school and has knuckled down to his GCSEs with a view to studying Maths, Geography and History at A Level. With me in the studio was Dr Richard Graham a consultant adolescent psychiatrist who has just opened a unit for technology addiction at the Capio Nightingale Hospital. Before we went on air he asked me what had worked for my son. I told him that in the end - after a lot of heart-ache, micro-management and therapy - it was simple; my son simply rebuilt his own confidence. His school, Hampton Court House, gave him the right structure to develop some self-esteem and he came to the conclusion that Real Life was worth a try after all. Which just goes to show no matter how compelling a virtual game is, it cannot match the Real Thing.

Virtually Addicted

Friday, September 25th, 2009

Teenage depression is a silent epidemic that is spreading through our increasingly complicated and fast-paced society. The average age of the onset of depression is now fourteen-and-a-half years of age…..and it is mostly boys.

Is it any wonder that so many of them choose to inhabit the risk-free world of computer games. I am not talking about those violent, savage games such as Grand Theft Auto but of the mythical, charming world of Final Fantasy.

Yes, they are fascinating, compelling and a haven for so many stressed-out teenagers. But are the safe. In the direct sense; yes. But they have an insidious quality which makes them a very real danger for our kids. In the end, many of our youngster prefer the virtual world to the real one….and that has very many dangerous implications.

At 8.OOpm on  ITV’s Tonight  I revisit three boys I interviewed three years ago about their computer game addiction. I wanted to see if they were off their drug of choice and working their way back to the real world. Two have made good progress but a third is still deeply immersed in his struggle.

This report has particular relevance to me since my own son developed a compulsion for computer gaming while I was making the original film. He has turned a corner…..but it has been a long and tiring three years…for him and for the rest of our family.

We under-estimate the lure of these games at our peril. The challenge now is to connect with our teenagers and make every effort to make real life a safe place to be.

I like having an MP who has integrity, honesty and courtesy. Call me old fashioned but these qualities matter a great deal to me in an MP. As far as I can make out, and I have spent a long time acquiring the necessary qualities to be a good journalist, Zac Goldsmith has all of these characteristics.

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